Yep, Still, I got to see this stuff in action yesterday. While I was doing nicely w/most, I made a coupla errors in that I reassured him a little too much & gave him the signal he wanted, "that he could stop pursuing so much, b/c he detected I was still wanting him."
I'm going to copy off this list to have it to refer to as well as my plan adopted from Nomo's. Only snag is finding a place to hide everything for fear they somehow find them.
I think this all makes sense for your sitch (& mine) & comes in the nick of time, if you ask me. Just as finding DB/DR & this site did.
Again, just by hearing about the GALing & change in attitude from you makes me want you , so I imagine it's going to have a huge effect on your H.