Would it really make a big difference. We all probably deserve some of what is happening with our M at the moment. If some anger or being nasty at times came out, I think I would be like I am right now, somewhat deserving of all this.
To some extent I think so. Or, maybe it would just be easier to not talk to her since I wouldn't WANT to hear the spew. Who knows...
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I think alot of our spouses are more scared of "what if", more than whether they love us or not. Not in all cases, but that is what I think with mine. She is afraid of what might happen instead of thinking what could happen with me not drinking.
Oh, that's exactly what my W is scared of - the "what if it goes back to being like it was???" That CAN'T happen, I won't let it happen, I just want her along for the ride, you know?
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I am learning that from you more than anyone, working on myself and my mental state. I also hope she likes the changes and wants to eventually keep the family together.
That'll keep you sane my friend.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
