Great work, SD! Sounds like you're doing all of the right things, my friend!
What is this "non-dating" thing you and many others have been talking about of late? I'm curious...
GD
The idea is that you are trying to add to the mystery by going out on safe, but ambiguous adventures that could be dates. Much like a date, it should be fun and for you. However, the secondary intent is to make you more "in-demand" and therefore desirable/valuable. This is based on an article by Dobson (I think) Stillme posted the link in her thread a few days ago.
SD
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