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Well, OK, maybe a fine gold chain with an Australian opal. Or maybe just a coupon to get a really elegant tattoo--reading"HUSBAND"--in a spot that seldom sees the light of day.

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I think the watch or necklace are good ideas. Something that reminds her that you love her, but isn't a glaring reminder of your commitment to each other such as the diamond ring. Although the tattoo is a great idea, but I think on the forehead would be a better place to remind her everytime she looks in the mirror that she is indeed married! Ha!




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All right, then, a really beautiful , scrolled letter "A" on the forehead.

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Ok everyone

The dinner was nice. Costly but nice. We talked about what my son and I did today (4-wheeling). Could not fish creeks were dry. I am having a hard time typing this to many (Rum N cokes) I talked a LITTLE about where I go and what I do when I go out. We laughed allot. After dinner we got in the car and I was driving back to her mom's house to pick up our son and she said she would be willing to go to one more place for just one more drink so we stopped at the lounge. Too early for the band but we had one more drink. Just had normal chit chats nothing R. then we went to her mom's and had one more drink and then went home. I wanted Soooo bad to give her an "end of date kiss" but did NOT.
So I don't know if this is going to work but I am going to try to make a link to my space. So you all could see my Pic's from the beach and today.

I have made the decision that I am going to send flowers and buy a watch. That is it though. I am not going to mention the anniversary at all.

Day 6 no drugs but the Run N coke sure hit the spot..


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That was really nice! A nice date. Lots of laughing . It sounds like it went well. And, hopefully, you were quite clean after your off-roading. And do NOT forget that the flowers have to be fragrant: the power of fragrance is much underestimated.

Did you mention the tattoo?

It sounds almost like a first date! That's terrific!

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Hey delia

No I did not mention the tattoo. I am going to do it and just let her notice it.It really was like a first date.

it was beter than out other first date. She was more tense then. I think she is expecting me to do something. but I just go with the flow. we didn't go dancing but I got her to the lounge. (her sugestion)

Maybe when I ask her (it will be a while) next time we will finly get to dance.

I am going for the watch and flowers. I am not expecting anything from her but It will tell alot. If she gets me something then she still does care. If not than I know we will need to take it to the next level.

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bad dream last night, messes up my whole PMA
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Great pics. What a sand castle! Two handsome men, what more could you ask for?




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Interesting thing about the dinner last night. W actually looked into my eyes when we talked. She has been avoiding Eye contact for a while now. Also she said something about asking my D23 if she wanted to go to San Fran. For the weekend. My W told me she was looking into booking at OUR time share. (Last time she did this it was for her and the OM)
Anyway this morning I started thinking was I invited? I asked her if the S.F trip included me. Her response “of course”. I told her I just didn’t want to assume anything. She seems a little more at ease since I told her the password to my computer. She has given me plenty of space. Would not think of asking me the password. It kind of funny because I am an open book. I have nothing to hide. 3 months ago we shared all of our secrets (except OM). I think My W knows I have no reason to trust her. Aside from changing my E-mail password. I still have nothing to hide.

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Way to go H,

Things are looking real good for you. And 6 days without the meds. I am sooooooo proud.

Well Done

Saffie


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength
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