Swash I hear you. I know my daughter is hurt and confused by all of this bullshit going on. She throws little fits when it is time to go, when wife or I leaves. "No dont go.....stay" gets all clingy and that. It is hard and it sucks. I am learning little tricks though, they way I prefer to leave my child is with a smile on her face bragging about all of the fun she had with daddy.....
Just got back from the big firework show.......it totally rocked! Blew away any firework show I ever saw before. Made me feel better, after this afternoons fiasco....lost my ring while swimming.. see my thread for more details. My buddy who I went with, his wife invited her friend along. This friend of hers just found out that her hubby is having an affair. Was kinda sad to watch her call him like 10 times in the 5 hour period we were down there......Managed to get 2 minutes with her towards the end of the night and pointed her towards DR book and towards this website. She was aware of my some of my sitch.......told her that this has helped me alot........
Anyhow, i digress.......just be patient with your kids. Easy to say, sometimes hard to do....take care man