Happy Canada Day, Being Me! I've been thinking about you. You sounded quite frustrated with your sitch on my thread (I know, bad day, we all have em) but I thought I'd share with you how I've handled my sitch and how my decision to end it came about. I always felt that as long as there was something I could try, something different to do, some way I could put a new plan into play then I would stay. We MP's don't back down, right Being Me! I put up with the betrayal, looked for signs of change, tried to change me for the M and for me. I GAL'd my butt off. But when I came to the point where there was nothing else I could see to do, that's when the end came. It's one thing to have a battle plan and put it into place but quite another to be sitting around watching helplessly while the one you love tears your heart out bit by bit. Most people think I should have dumped her 2 years ago but I hung in, this was my W and my family and NOTHING mattered more than that. I could stand some emotional pain if it meant I could save what I cherished. It's when one realizes that there is nothing left to be done that the emptiness sets in. That's when I decided I was not going to continue bearing this pain for no other reason than to say I could bear it. Something had to change. So, I don't know where you are in your sitch but I do know that it is a powerful motivator to have a plan, something you can do. It keeps the PMA up. So maybe, you too, need to look at where you are think about what your goals are and can they be reached in the sitch you are in. I'm not advocating one way or the other but sometimes we need to sit down and take stock.
