Thanks 4 the advice - I think that you are right.

It's ripping my H apart though, and he has been crying as he thinks he is never going to be able to see his mother and sister again. It just seems so unfair coming ontop of everything else, and when we did NOTHING to create this sitch. \:o


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength