I mentioned the "get in OW face" partly for humor. Ultimately it probably would not do any good, but it was a fun thought.
And even if she did do it, it doesn't have to be in the purpose of trying to control OW, but to let OW know what stance she is taking. For instance, "OW, I have dealt with your interference for a long time. I want you to know that I continue to stand for my M. Your R with my H is not a part of our M and I will not be threatened by it....And if you keep trying to take my man, I'm gonna knock you out with the 2x4 my friends on DB loaned me!! haha. okay, just kidding.
OW is a very manipulative piece of dirt. I hope that one day she can come out of her empty shell and repent for all that she's done and may do and become the person God made her to be. She obviously has no character. H will eventually see this, and eventually her pull on him will dissipate, it's just how long will that take.
Like someone mentioned, I remember Michelle writing about finding out why H is attracted to OW. Not sure how easily you can find this info out. That would be helpful, but trying to guess probably won't get you very far. So, just keep GALing and doing what you know you need to do. We will definitely all keep supporting you!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
