My XH seems to get close at times--calls everyday for awhile and then pulls away for awhile. Makes comments that he wants to move back with me and our son, but then other times acts like that is the furthest thing from his mind. Sometimes he gives me a hug and kiss when he leaves, other times, he just leaves. The thing is that I really don't act any different so I don't think it's a response to what I'm doing. I act friendly, smile, am happy when we're together, etc. No R talk, mostly chit chat--work, son, etc. Is this normal? Today he gave me money from garage sale he had--none of the stuff was mine that he sold. Any reasons for that? Usually he says he'll call me when he leaves, today he didn't say anything like that. I know I can't try to analyze every little thing and to do that is pointless, but things seemed to be going so well and today--not so well.
Is this part of MLC--though I'm not totally convinced my XH is in MLC. He fits some of it, but not other things. Not that it matters. He made a comment to me on the phone the other day (it was a long conversation--probably the longest one since he's left and we've been D). His comment was, "maybe I should be going to AA meetings". Not sure what that was supposed to mean. I know he's been going out to bars and partying, but I didn't think it was a problem. Is he questioning himself? Is that good?
