Is there any hope? Anyone had any success

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I hate to see someone in my situation as I know first hand how awful it feels.

I love your description of a "normal" day now. That is soooo true! I don't know how I am going to be from one minute to the next.

Last night, again, he asked if I thought about what he had said. I said no. He said I need to. I said again, I was in no rush. He said he's had 2 yrs. I bit my tongue. I then asked him if he had scheduled a medical procedure he was supposed to have done I think 2 yrs ago. He said no, he was only worrying about what he felt he needed to. So of course I pointed out that it was something he needed and should worry more about it than all this BS.

One other funny thing, he had schedule a haircut on Fri and missed the appt! The girl called angry and asked him where he was. I laughed to myself that he can't even remember a simple appt without my help.

My H hasn't left yet but when he does he says he wants 50% custody not just weekends. We'll see. He has the kids everyday anyway as he gets out earlier from work than I do. Especially when they are in school I shift my schedule later so I can be home to send them off in the morning.

Keep in touch! I want to hear how it goes for my dopleganger.