I'm with Cat on planning to continue living on your own. If something comes out of everything else it's all good, but if your H feels a deadline, he might react negatively. Plus, I've seen several threads here with people who rushed back into living together only to have it blow apart again because the stress was too great. I think folks sometimes think it will be easier to work on the underlying problems if you're together when, in reality, I think the underlying problems have to be resolved first before being together will work.
I with I could join the Piecing... group with you, but I'm headed to the "After Divorce" group instead. Things sound OK (if not good) for you. I'm sending positive thoughts your way.
