So sorry you're feeling stuck. I really have no advice to give, except to say that because of the move, you are under a lot of stress. Get settled in to your place and new environment first. At this point, I dont think H is going anywhere, so I think time is on your side to de-stress, one issue at a time. I've read that moving and divorce are the 2 most stressful events in a person's life (lucky for me, I'll probably be going through both at the same time! Fun!). It'll take time to get things back to good. Be patient and think of how far you've come in the past year.
Take care...
M: 33 MLC/WAH: 33 M 6 yrs, together 12 2 kids: 5,2 Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D