Boy, your XW sure does have issues, and would you want her back now? She needs to work on herself, just as you had to, I think. Not that you can force her to do so ... she has to come to that realization herself.

I agree with OTB ... it's a date, so just pretend she is like any other woman you're taking out. Try not to discuss the children, and keep the conversation light and fun.

Well, that's my 2c worth, anyway.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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