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So what were the tell tale signs she wanted to reconcile?

My big issue is that my wife NEVER speaks up, period. Except for:
1. originally asked me out on a date 18 yrs ago!
2. has told me no more 4 times now.
Thats pretty much it for her speaking her mind, the rest is me filling air time that she does not fill when we chat which is why we are in so much trouble.

So what I am asking you, given your wise words of wisdom and maybe for all the other folks looking for some glimmer of hope, was it a touch, a talk?

Again, i echo everything everyone says about your post. I am on Month 4 so would love to hear what finally tipped it for you.

So glad to hear about people getting things worked out.


Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.