I wish my H had your state of mind. I'm his second wife and he has a 14 yr old son from his first marriage. He knows how that divorce affected his son. I guess I just don't see how he can do it again with 2 more kids. I was there I KNOW how guilty he feels about not being around as much as he'd like for his first son (he lives in FL with his mom) and it just makes no sense to me that he's okay doing it to our kids. He says things like oh their kids they'll be sad for a little bit but they'll get over it. I think he just doesn't want to admit to himself that is so not true. He's just trying rationalize it for his peace of mind. I just want to scream when he says things like that. Obviously I don't.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
