Nope, doesn't do the kids any good.
I can live without my wife, I don't want to but I can. I am probably wrong but it is because I have been married once before and have a 16yr old son and seen how it has been for him. He is well adjusted, straight A student, but still has diffuculties about his mom and I. When my current wife and I split up, his first question to me was if his mother and I could get back together, we have been divorced 12-13 years, it hurt me that he still has that hope. With that marraige she said she wanted a divorce and I said okay and boom it was done.
This time with it all happening again and another son involved, I am approaching it much differently, this time I am fighting for my son and my family. It is much harder than walking like I did last time, so the freaking out does happen, just hide it really well from my youngest.


M 41
W 33
S8
S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07