D16 and I are planning a trip next week (Tues - Fri). H was supposed to be off 2 days during that time so he told me he thought he'd stay at the house (life on the boat is getting old I think). H calls today to tell me he rearranged his schedule so has 6 days off in a row so I can stay longer if I want to. I simply said I didn't base my trip plans on his schedule. I then asked if he needed the house during that time. He said no, that wasn't why he offered. Strange! It makes me frustrated how he can change his schedule now to get the weekend off for himself, but he couldn't ever change when I wanted him to be off for a special event.

Matilda