Did you ever have one of those punching or bounce back toys...I had a blow up snow man weighted at the bottom. You could hit it and it would just wobble nad bounce upright again.
Well some MLCers run away. They may or may not want us to pursue...probably they want both.
But others push to create that space between us. They try to push us away while they stay put. In that case, I guess a Stander's job is to be like the snowman and bounce back.