When H and I were still in the D stage where he was deadset on getting a D, my Pastor told me that God will not mess w/ volition -- a person's free will. He said if H had a plan that he was deadset on carrying out, God would not touch that. He would have to suffer the consequences. So if she is deadset on this, it may go forward, but you never know what will happen once it's said & done. If she lets her guard down, God may then start working on her and she'll realize what she did was the wrong thing. I'll just pray that she lets her guard down before it actually goes through!!


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10