Then it started...the same things as the last 18 months, the fact that it is all my fault that our marriage failed (which I do admit and except my part and failings) Blaming me for the world, and now his newest thing...blaming me that his future is hopeless. That the only lie I ever said was "I do". And to top ot all off "one day I am going to kill myself, and it will be your fault".
WOW, that is 110% codependent. I don't think you can allow that kind of talk from him. He needs to see a counselor pronto.
And he says YOU haven't changed, looks like that a 2-way street from the exhange you posted. Sorry things sucked on your B-Day.
Have a better day tomorrow
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...