Thanks for the support. You are right it is not over until she says "I do" to someone else. What I know and have come to grips with is that my M is done and dusted. Maybe there will be hope for reconciling in the future, but I need do what is best for me and my girls at this time. You are right, I can look myself in the mirror from here on out knowing that I did all that I could to save my M and keep my family intact, her heart never was in it over the last 7 months.