I know what it's like. I go to work at 3:00am get off pick up my son from school. Go to baseball practice. Come home cook dinner wash the dishes. Fold the clothes and then about 6:30 -7:00 the W gets home. EVERYTHING IS DONE. 8:00 go to bed and start all over again. We are house husbands. I don't think our W's realize what we do. I don't know about you but I very really get a thank you. It’s like that's my job. This does not even start with the yard work. Of course that's mine also.
Like I told you I have the power to destroy the OM. I have pic's that I am sure his wife would be interested in. And his boss at the yard furnisher store he works in might like to see them to. (Believe me they are embarrassing he is wearing this pink thing). I could go the piazza polar he frequents or the grocery store. But I don't. I know it was my wife’s weakness that brought this on but if he were any kind of a married man he would have TALKED to her not taken advantage.
So I don't snoop anymore. Like I said I feel good now I think the phone call have either stopped or are way less frequent. So if I look and I see this I will not feel any better. BUT.... If I see the calls have increased. My PMA will be right back to the day I found out. My mission is not to tell her to stop calling. I need to make our relationship one that she will see no need to call.
Sorry for jumping on the soap box but I know how hard it is not to search/peek/snoop. Stay strong it does get easier not to snoop but the penalty / hurt does increase if you do snoop down the road and see what you don't want to see
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
