She seemed like she was "thinking" about things so my opinion is that I would not try to contact her again. You called, she knows she can call you back when she's ready, but you don't want to push her away. As hard as it may be, I would NOT pursue at all! Not even under the pretenses of just a "friendship!"

Also, if you need those separation papers done so you will be protected financially, you may need to email her, no text or call, and tell her that. Maybe that will give her the kick in the pants she needs to wise up!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10