Read the section in DR regarding coming out of LRT.

Patience. Move slow. Let her initiate contact. Stop texting, e-mailing and whatnot. Continue GALing, be friendly, happy and agreeable.

Don't allow yourself to become emotional. Don't attach too much to anything she does right now.


Lure her in bro. She ran back behind her wall. Don't chase. Figuratively spread a great picnic blanket out, chill out, lay down on your blanket and enjoy a glass of wine. Don't try to take her wall down. Create an atmostphere on your side of the wall that she will want to be part of, lure her. Let her come over and sit with you. Be still, patient and strong.

Be safe. Especially now, she probably feels really vulnerable. She opened herself to all these emotions that she has been stuffing and doing her best to kill off. Don't prove that side of her right. You can do this. Patience is your biggest ally. She came out to play, be cool and she will come out again when she is ready. Each time she comes out and sees it's safe, the easier it will be for the side of her that wants to be with you to tell the side of her that doesn't to shut the heck up.