Sorry Cadesmom... Yes, we all are under the same roof for now. I think the nice behavior is her trying to be a good Christian. It is messed up thinking on her part getting D, having an A, doesn't God hate divorce and there is something in the bible about not committing adultery...isn't there ;-). I truly feel this is why she is doing what she is doing. She wants to make this as easy for me and our girls as possible, while trying to live her beliefs. The reality of it is she is doing whatever makes this as easy on her as possible. I am not that naive...
Mike, Thanks for the example and the delay tactics. Yes, you are the lock Monster. I saw another thread that you locked up. I guess the first thing I can do is take my sweet time coming up with my parenting schedule and list of assets that I want. She is not going to be happy with that but it should buy me a couple of weeks. And I will let my L see it before I give it to her, add another week.