Thanks so much - this has been really helpful for me too. And thanks for your support - every little bit helps
The short-term plan: 1. End the isolation - Make consistent efforts to include other people in my life. 2. Contact my favorite local non-profits for volunteer opportunities. 3. Develop a daily habit of journalling, meditation, prayer. 4. Update resume, portfolio and start looking for better job.
Trust me, for me, that's huge. But I have some momentum now and I'm taking advantage of it.
Communication with H: Well, since this is all new to me and we can basically make up our own rules, I'm going to suggest a weekly phone call. Probably Sunday nights. And see how that goes. I suspect I'll find it easier to set and maintain boundaries once I'm in my own space.
Ultimate Goal: to be a self-sufficient adult with healthy boundaries and a clear sense of self. Think of it as a delayed adolescence
Thanks again, and JR too Have a great July 4th (Independence Day - what a great time for everyone to celebrate what makes them unique and strong, huh?)
I'm off now for a week or so - got LOTS to do - take care - I'll check up as soon as I'm able.
