Thanks for the advice Spike. My mind is 1000 different directions today.Amazing the control women have over us. I guess the sooner we realize and accept that the better. My goal is without words let her see what she is losing. I know she will want to come back at some point, and trying to keep things from getting to a point where we ruin that chance. I dont know if I could ever have her back or even if I did if we could ever be happy if she goes to another man.
Well, you know what - not being sure you want her back works toy our advantage. It puts the ball in your court and she has ZERO control over you. You're putting yourself in the right place and if she gets her [censored] together, she can come talk to you and you'll be ready. Plain and simple. It might take a while but you don't care because you're focused on you and the kids. When she comes back, you deal with things then because you're ready!
Good luck!!! Enjoy that book, I couldn't put it down.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
