sweet dude! I keep waiting for my W to invite me over for the 4th (her holiday <roll eyes>) but she won't. I actually invited her over to a big family party on the 9th. She won't come, but she knows my family wants her there.
Now, you HAVE to be chill. No talk of R unless she brings it up, man, even then keep things loose and easy. Confident but controlled, you know what I mean? She wants the friends to see "how you are" and if you 180 her and don't pressure her, she'll have nothing, it'll add to her confusion and she'll be on her way back because you are a changed man!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...