I know your right Trip!! I've got to do what others here do get some duck tape!!
I ty not to call him out anymore on the lies. H also will get more sneakier and when I do call him out it only proves to him I have snooped thru his things once again which he can't stand.
Trip, you can give me another lecture again. I felt so bad last nite & I wanted to make it up to him by lettinghim know I still care b/c I sat thinking about all the times I kept turning him down and wondering if this was his way of "testing" what we had discussed about his sexual needs that I wasn't complying with before (did not know of). I think in the past week he was really trying to decide whether or not to move into OW new apt and thats when he kept coming on non stop to me. I think he was seeing if I were to perform what he thought "i just ain't that type of women to do those things he likes".
So late last night I texted ( i never do this) sexually explicit message. I knew he probably still was too mad to respond but I wanted him to know I wanted him anyways.I wrote that the house was completely empty and without any kids & I could do whatever to him any room of the house and hthat I wanted to ravish him,etc you get the drift. Yep no reponse.
