Use "Making her Happy" to build your confidence and ability to speak her language and understand what she's saying when she's talking.
You have to realize, you have no control over W. If she bails and uses OM for his money, well, ignore it - do what you need to with yourself and with the kids. Let her burn out on OM, or more likely, he'll burn out on her. Make yourself more attractive to her by building your confidence, your self-respect, and attitude, and leave the door open to her for reconciliation if that's what you want. She has to want it herself and you can't make her want it. Good luck!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
