It may seem like she doesn't care but on some level she must otherwise she would have just taken off by now. The fact that she remains in the home with you, even with the occassional night away, speaks volumes.

She may be to wrapped up in her own confusion and hurting to really see the changes you are making. If she does see the changes she may not trust that they are permanent. Keep up working on you and she will notice. Being the WAW myself I can tell you that she will be very suspicious of these changes and only time will show if the nwe improved you is here to stay.

Keep giving her the space she needs. No matter how much you want to fix this its going to be a slow process, no doubt with bumps in the road.

Hope this helps some. Keep working on you and she will notice \:\)

Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.