chicki you have got to get a hold of yourself and your emotions. I know it is hard and believe me I have a tough time too but at least take some small concentrated steps to doing so.

When he was rushing off, could you have not just turned away? Why would you need to leave first? I am confused about that. Where were you?

As for the lies, I am usually calling people out on them but I learned with my H that it only made him all the more sneakier. So I think it is good that you are saying nothing.

As for buying you out of the deed. BS! He can refinance without doing so. Tell him that when he brings it up again.