mf1701,

That is one thing you can do for sure is to see your Priest.

I would like to suggest counceling marriage and independent.

Also i suggest getting the book called "Divorce Remeady" by Michelle Wiener-Davis It has all sorts of vauable info. Including Affairs and internet se* and can help you hopefully to save your M. ALso a book called "the Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman That will help you figure out what her love languge is and might help to bring her back.

The good thing is is that you know you were crossing the line and told the truth and in the end hopefully have a better M than before.

So many of us here wish our H's would buck up the truth. Thank-You for being brave enough to come forth.

DO you have any ideas what caused you to look elsewhere? It might help some one else here to get the whole story from you thru your eyes,

Keep posting there are a lot of people hear that could help you.

JAK

Last edited by jak58; 06/29/07 05:34 PM.

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