I hope I was some help, Phoenix. We sure have been in this a long time together on the forum.
This self-improvement, DB'ing, dealing with WAS sitch, is like having sticky paper on your hand ... you pull it, push, rub it, try and get it off with your teeth, and just when you think you have it unstuck, it sticks to the other hand (ugh, then you try the same thing you did with the previous hand), but you keep trying to get it off, and sometimes the only way to get it unstuck, is to start cutting it away then washing it off with soap and water. Or, someone else comes along and pulls it off for ya, if ya let 'em!
Can you tell I've been doing some writing lately? LOL
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim