Great list! I don't think most well-balanced people are only the second one. We have to have a little of the first so that we are not doormats. However, it would be nice to aim for that second list. I know I would like to be more compassionate, abundance-minded, and other-centred. \:\)

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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