I just still see you both going 'round & 'round in circles and no one is trying to break the cycle. I understand that you feel that he should be acting differently, but HE'S NOT. Therefore, you are going to need to be the one to change things and try to get beyond all of the cr*p. It's not going to stop until someone stops it. You not wanting to have sex last night or whenever it was because you didn't feel like it and then actually saying things along those lines was totally what I'm talking about. You need to stop that stuff whether you feel justified or not. I also agree w/ LFL. If my H said some of the things Joey has said to you, I would not be sticking around. That's NOT OK. I commented on that before though. That's total emotional abuse in my book.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
