All I really can think of in response to everything you have written is "People treat you the way you allow them to treat you." Where are your self-respect boundaries?? I just cannot imagine a man saying to me half the dreadful things your H has said to you. It just WOULD NOT happen. Do I control what other men do? NO. But I can control my response to their actions and you have ALLOWED this to get to this point. I'm not saying you are all at fault here, but your H is not here to listen, YOU are. Don't you see how you are contributing to the way your H responds? LFL
