Hi Virginia,

Thanks for your support and help. It was good talking to you last week.

I have commenced the financial separation. W is not too pleased with it, but agrees that this is the best way.

I will cover all expenses for DD, and groceries.

It may take a few weeks to incorporate, but I think it will help me knowing that I am not funding OM's activities with my W.

She has been friendly towards me over the last few weeks, it will be interesting to see how this will change no we are getting into the serious business end of our separation and divorce.


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."