Well, as I mowed, I started thinking too much about things and basically started stewing. The song that Pam sent to him in an email and he quoted back to her, which mentions "those three little words" and "won't you just lay her with me and let the world slip away" is on ALL THE TIME!! (It's called Chasing Cars by Snow Patrol.) I never posted about this, but when I was on my way to Wichita for my best friends bridal shower and bachelorette party, it came on the radio and I called him and let it play in the background. He got TOTALLY PISSED OFF AND DEFENSIVE. He is NEVER EVER EVER sweet, apologetic, understanding when I bring up in some way HIS indiscretions, but we can talk all gddam day about how I dumped him and screwed other people in 1992. GRRRRR!
So you let that song play in the background...why again?...for what gain? Or was it just to stick it to him the way he has been sticking it to you. If that is the case, this is a good example of how you are acting just as bad as him. It's childish and certainly not going to improve your M. Both of you are in a vicious cycle that you NEED to figure out how to stop or it's going to be same thing as always. LFL
