Bronco, stay calm and don't quit doing anything for your kids because OM is around. If he gets outta line, knock his ass OUT! You coach your kids, let HIM be uncomfortable, don't give anything up because of him. He is temporary. He is just providing some attraction for your W that you aren't or haven't been. It's VERY common, so don't get too discouraged.
I think you need to go to http://www.makingherhappy and buy David's book. Get your confidence up, make yourself more attractive to your W so she forgets OM and remembers why she loves you.
Just do not let OM get you off your game, or it'll be a much tougher road than you already have ahead of you.
Good luck!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...