Sadly, my mom and husband run a nightclub restaraunt together. The hours are long and my mom says it is not a good place for happily married people. My H has been laid off 4 times in 6 years. He cannot get it together so my Mom gave him a job and now he is always gone. By trying to be a good husband by working so hard I have actually lost my marriage. We would spend less than 30 min a day together. Huge blow to sex life! He is sleep deprived and depressed. He gets 4 hours of sleep at night. I never thought women would be interested in him since my mom is always there and everyone knows he is taken. Plus, he is no beefy guy at 130 lbs. but my friend says that women with low self esteem who have ex cons who beat them will get smitten by a sweet married man no matter what he looks like. I actually thought if I married a geeky sweet guy he would never cheat. My last BF was a rock star looked like Elvis and women chased him! I guess they are all capable of this behavior. I am shocked by y H's behavior.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
