Thank you for your advice, it really helps to know and hear from the other side of things.
Well the saga continues, she called last night and asked if I wouldn't mind leaving the house for a few hours so that she coud pack some things up. I was happy to oblige and went out with a friend.
Come home and WOW! I own nothing! All I can do is look around and laugh. I have a 3000 square foot house with a small sofa, 3 barstools, a bed and a 19 inch television. She cleaned up! Funny thing is I was upset for about 10 minutes and I think I really could care less. She left my home office alone, so that is all I really need.
The sad thing is I offered to leave prior to this, and she wouldn't have it. She is feeling co-dependent and needs to prove to herself that she can do it. But I'm really worried about my son, he is not taking this well. I'm just so amazed at how perceptive he is.
A few good notes, I road bike a lot and I got back on the bike and I'm doing all I can to work out that aggresion on the road. Haven't drank in a few days, and won't smoke. I called her brother last night, the one "against" me. Very interesting convo, he told me that he didn't have time to talk because she was there, but he said he didn't want me to take anything personal of acts he had done. He stated he just didn't get why she is leaving and what is going on, he told me to call him when he goes home and he thinks he can help.
So that is were things stand. Thnx for the help. I should be posting more this weekend and on others as well.
