Why can't you go to that banquet thing w/ him instead of you both doing separate things? It seems to me that he's happier when things are going well for him outside the M and other interests are popping up. I would be hesitant about him going to CA or whatever by himself. I'm afraid he may do something he might regret.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10