Realize you are going to have bad days, its natural and normal, your are dealing with something that you never anticipated you would, none of us did! But you are doing so well and don't forget that. One thing I realized by going to C is that what I feel and am dealing with are normal, and we need to go threw these feelings to come out better on the other side. There is nothing wrong for admitting your responsibilty in the problems in the marriage, however your H just as mine chose which path they wanted to deal with it! Instead of being men and coming to us and saying they weren't happy and dealing with it as an adult, they chose to deal with it in a very childish way! That was there choice nothing to do with us! So you CAN NOT let him put that guilt on you, because it isn't yours!
Stay strong!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
