H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
But she said it with so much venom. She said I had been distant the last few days and she thought it was because I was trying to deal with her letting go. I need a new strategy.
I have been reading DR. The five love languages. Hmmmm. I know what her languages are. We took the test and I had been putting those in place. Right now, my thought is just to let go and let God. I'm tired. She can't keep beating me up. Telling me how unhappy she has been and that sex was never good with me. She can't. I'm tired. Eventually she will see ending this is a mistake. She will understand that our M is not as bad as she is making it. The thing is, SHE has to see it. I am done manipulating.
This is just something that they do to make themselves feel better about what they ate doing. They rewrite history and forget about all the good thing that you guys shared. This is completly normal for the WAW or and WAS, justification in their minds!
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
If she wants to re-write history, let her. I am leaving her alone. Her wanting things to be her way is getting to me. I am not downplaying the mistakes i have made in the M. I just know I dealt with her problems and now she doesn't want to deal with mine. So be it. Like I said. I'm tired. If she will be better and happier without me, I am going to let her be.
You know. She claims that she doesn't need me, she has never been happy. Then why did she ask me to get her something to eat and then called me from her job and ask me to do something for her? What does this mean? Or does it mean anything? Geez.
