OC! Good to hear from you! How are things with you? The situation escalated last night when H made a last ditch effort to save his restaurant by calling a meeting with all his friends to try to borrow more money. Thank god, they ALL said no and have hopefully convinced him that closing the place down is the best thing he can do. His debt is beyond enormous at this point. We'll see what happens in the next few days. A few have told him that the reason they will not lend him the money is because OW and her friends are involved and cannot be trusted. H still refuses to see/believe it.
HM: My H gets addicted to games in spurts. Currently, he's addicted to Warcraft and spends all weekend playing it online. I'm a big fan of our new Wii, and honestly, I have to say, it's a great way to pass time and just zone out. I can understand why H does it, given his situation. You get absorbed in to this other world and don't think of anything else while you're playing. Plus, if you're good at it, it's very "rewarding" and makes you feel successful, which is not happening in H's real life. Good thing for me, I actually know when too much is enough and am not an addict (although maybe I would be if I had more time!).
M: 33 MLC/WAH: 33 M 6 yrs, together 12 2 kids: 5,2 Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D