Just a beer if our paths ever cross. Of course you need to know your rights and hire a lawyer but IMO, not yet, and hopefully never. Can I suggest you check out this link Thread. The initial post is a damn good read. FWIW, my advice to you is the sooner you can get past your emotions and formulate (and I think write down) your specific DB plan (with your goals and with the M saving strategies that you are going to try), the better off you will be. Think long-term here (months, not weeks), and start monitoring results of your strategies. If they work, keep it up. If not, try something else. This is ALL ABOUT finding solutions. You need to be patient and manage your emotions to do that, but at its core that is what DB is about.

Good luck, keep posting,
Nomopo

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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