Most of us are in the same boat. Thoughts racing from one thing to another, loving and hating her at the same time. Time does help, but I can only say that since my W and I have been talking/crying alot about it. Are you guys open about the situation?
Has your W stated if the A is over? I am guessing not since she is still talking/texting. You two need to discuss what you both want. This part scared me the most, because I was so scared of her stating that she wanted out of the M. Thankfully she didn't, but I am still scared. If it is decided that she want's to end the A, then she needs to stop all communications.
Hang in there man. There are some really helpful people on these boards. I am also a newbie.
I thought we were bulletproof. M: 35 H: 33 Together 18 years Married 10 S6 D4 H: EA 3/07 PA 5/07 ended 6/07
