yes they will, It will effect them forever. As hard as this is on us it will be on them. And its such a waste for them who dont even want to try everything in the world before throwing in the towel. Liek I said mine is still home asked em for a D 2 weeks ago, but she has no job and no place to go, and I cant afford nor will I support her move out. Especially with her "Friend" she says she is not having an affair with. If he were out of the picture and she demanded a seperation and we could do counseling etc and still try to reconcile I would support it and do all I could to make sure she is taken care of , but this friend changes it all.
Well I will try to check in later but its time to go home. One of those I want to go home but am afraid too... never know what rollercoaster is waiting for you,and the wonder of has she been talking to him all day or has she been with him? Of course she would tell me she isnt or hasnt but I cant even ask. Talk to you later, hope you have a good night and tomorrow is another day!


H-40
W-33
Married 13.5 yrs
S18, S11, D15, D9
W asked for D on 6/05/07