Hugs to you. H needs to learn the hard way. He probably needs some advice now. UNFORTUNATELY, although you may know the situation best, you are definitely not the one who can say anything. It will only seems to be pushing or the advice will be taken in the wrong way. Not sure how you really can help other than protecting yourself and your kids. In this way, H only has himself to worry about when things go very bad (like OW cleans out his accout and runs). good luck with the move. Tell him when are you ready to tell him. I think you will feel really detached when you no longer let his circumstances to affect when you tell him. Frankly, I think from now till November, there probably won't be any good timing. (sorry to be so brutally honest). good luck
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
